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"Women Need Better Discernment!" | 5 Dating Tips to Protect Your Peace & Avoid Heartbreak

✨Discernment can save you a lot of time, energy, and tears!✨
Chile they done told me on Instagram (@LMJST_POD) live that don't hold the gowrls accountable for making better decisions when it comes to dating... and I don't because my babes can do no wrong! Really, though, I have always been a "STANUP" kinda girl when it comes to encouraging better dating decisions. A lot of this is rooted in what I've learned thus far through my own journey and from others. So, in this episode I wanna give you 5 pieces of advice that I have been helpful for me in navigating love and avoiding situations that don't serve me. Discernment is a tool to be sharpened honeybun, take your time and progress forward!
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Love Bombing & Baby Momming! | Thoughts on Arnell Armon & Single Motherhood

✨Don't let your ego or desperation cause you to fall victim to a Love Bomber!✨
Have you ever been the victim of love bombing? I think that we all have in some way. Chile, when I tell you it's easy to get caught up when someone is showing you everything you wanna see. This isn't inherently a bad thing but here's a little food for thought that came to mind when I saw the discourse surrounding our good sis Arnell Armon. I know I am late to the game on this topic but I just had to give my lil two cents! Especially after how hard they went in the comments on last episodes reel on having multiple baby fathers.
 
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The Wildest Dating Show Yet! | Pop The Balloon or Find Love?

✨Pop The Balloon Or Find Love is like dating apps in real life on crack!✨
Y'all know how I feel about these dating shows! I love to hate them and, secretly, can't get enough! This new and very viral show has brought about what the gowrls are calling "Balloon Pop Dating" and chile.. you know I had to give a little reaction to it. Now, do I advocate for these types of shows, definitely not, HOWEVER, there's always some good takeaways and Pop The Balloon is probably the most realistic one out. Prepare to be sick of meeeeee!
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When Will It Be My Turn Jesus?! | Delayed Gratification, Embracing Patience, and Celebrating Others' Success

✨Everything I want will come at the right time!✨
They don't say "timing is everything" for now reason chile! It's soooo hard to wait for the things we think we're ready for now. In all honesty, it one of my greatest struggles sometimes. I've learned, though, that this journey is not one where I can see the entire picture right away. Actually, in hindsight, I tend to see why things played out the way they did! All this to say, take your time. Clap and be happy for those around you. Understand that the things that are truly yours will come to you at the right time. At a time in which you'll have the tools to appreciate and keep them!
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Looks Do Matter! | The Importance Of Self-Care

✨"Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder"... Beholder is you!✨
As much as we hate to admit it, life is easier when you're pretty. While pretty is subjective, pretty privilege is very much so real! I've wanted to touch on this subject for quite a while now, with a little bit of a different standpoint, because I do believe there's opportunity to gain pretty privilege and use it for good. We're getting into that, in conjunction with it's bestie Colorism.
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Bad Friends & Botched BBLs! | My Built-In Bestie Is Here!

✨If you see me on Baddies.. Just now I came to fight!✨
My Mini-Me has arrived! This is her official debut on the pod and I need y'all to give her a warm welcome. Auntie has been tired so this episode is just a light keke about bad friendships, getting over exes, reality tv, and cosmetic surgery. A rant and a ramble, which y'all know I'm good for!
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The Gurls Are Scamming! Should You?? | Managing Finances In My 20s & In Relationships

✨Money isn't the source of joy... But it does buy you convenience!✨
Are we living in a financial dystopian future??? Because it feels like everyone is on the struggle bus chile! One thing social media will do is fool you into believing a scam will set you financially free.. well, I'm here to burst that bubble bookie 🤗! I also want to share my journey with handling finances as in my 20s and navigating finances in a relationship.
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Bumble's Fumble! | Your Soulmate Is Not On A Dating App!

✨Delete That Dating App NEEEOOOOWWWW✨
 
Chile Bumble done fumbled an entire bag with its most recent ad campaign! Needless to say, TikTok gathered our good sis up! Which has since prompted this episode 😅. I'm letting y'all in on why Bumble and other dating apps are problematic and giving you a few tips on using the apps the right way. Because we all know, they ain't going anywhere any time soon!
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I Ain't Choose Celibacy.. Celibacy Chose Me! | Being Intentionally Single

✨I'm Celibate... Until I'm not!✨
 
So, in choosing to be intentionally single at the beginning of this year... I subsequently chose to be celibate. It wouldn't have been my first choice 😅, but ya girl is in a new era! 1000% tho... it's not easy giving that up and it's definitely been interesting navigating being alone. I wanna share a little perspective with y'all...
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Baddie Burn Out! | It's Ok To Change Your Mind

✨If I said I was done with this podcast.... I lied!✨
 
Long time no see 😅! I know... it's been a while. The truth is... a girl was burnt tf aht! What was supposed to be a 2 episode break turned into an over two month hiatus. I'm glad for it though, it gave me time to reflect and come to terms the changes I've made. Not gonna lie... I did briefly consider quitting... but I knew deep down, I could never. Because I love this and I love ya'll!
Thank you for rocking with an indecisive queen 💕!
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